'Getting The Love You Want' Couples Workshop - in person and on-line

A transformative experience for couples developed by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., & Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D. presented by Sophie Slade Ph.D. and David Howarth.  

All couples are welcome!  Imago is committed to inclusiveness and non-discrimination.

Help your relationship reach its fullest potential!  

Whether you’ve just fallen in love, are looking to restore your romance, or are in chronic conflict, this workshop is for you.


During the workshop you and your partner will learn a new way to talk and listen that will help you:

  • Discover each other in a new way.
  • Grow into meeting each others' relational needs in safe ways while expanding yourself.
  • Deepen and sustain a joyful connection.
  • Acquire essential information and skills to help make your relationship successful and lasting, or to figure out if you want to be together;
  • Develop a fresh understanding of the “exquisite perfection of the fit” between you in areas of greatest conflict;
  • Transform your conflicts into opportunities for growth and healing
  • Meet the chimp and turtle who can take over your relationship
  • Realize you are not alone on this human journey.
  • And oh, so much more to create the relationship you want!


Personal work is done with your partner.  This is an educational experience for couples, NOT group therapy. The workshop includes short lectures, written exercises, live demonstrations and practice sessions between partners. You share only with your partner with the support of facilitators, if needed.

Dates: February 24-25 & May 4-5, 2024

Hours: 9:00 a.m - 6:00 p.m

Location: Stephens House, 17 East End Road, Finchley, London, N3 3QE. www.stephenshouseandgardens.com

Cost: £620 per couple - £610 for registrations one month prior to workshop dates. 

Repeat participants get a 2/3 discount off the current price.  

Cancellation Policy: A registration fee of £100 per couple is non-refundable. For cancellations up to 1 week prior to workshop, the balance will be refunded. For cancellations less than 1 week prior to the workshop date no refunds will be given, but attendance can be deferred to a later date, if available, with a payment of a £50 fee



“So simple, practical and produces results. Our lives have been enriched and transformed by this process”

“Sophie has the gift of love and dedication in her way of presenting, explaining, respecting."

“Sophie and David are a tangible example of Imago at work in real relationships. It was very inspiring”

“Highly recommended - I can now see that incompatibility with your partner is not necessarily a recipe for disaster, but for a successful life-long partnership”

“Having had a couple of half- hearted attempts at relationship counselling which I couldn’t buy into, the Imago approach was a ‘breath of fresh air’"

"This workshop enabled me to see my partner through new, enriched eyes”

”Extraordinary course, with exercises which changed our relationship immediately…”


When is the next workshop?

DateLocationCostContact and commentsRegistration Form
Getting the Love You Want workshop for Couples. 24-25 February & 4-5 May, 2024. 9 a.m.- 6 p.m.Stephens House & Garden (Avenue House), 17 East End Road, Finchley, N3 3QE£620 per couple, £610 if register before 15th January, 2024. Register early to secure your place.slade.imago@icloud.com
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Satisfying Sex for Committed Couples. February 17-18 9.30-5.00 London, UK£525 per couple Slade.imago@icloud.comwww.sophieslade.com
Getting the Love You Want workshop for Couples. March 16-17, 2024, 9 a.m - 6 p.m. 5202 rue de Verdun,
Montreal, QC H4H 1K1
$950 per couple, $895 if register 1 month prior. Slade.imago@icloud.comwww.sophieslade.com